I had a dream that I was getting ready to leave my apartment to run errands. It was the summer time and as I was sitting in my car, I saw Brittney and Andre pull up. This caught me by surprise because despite all of us living in the same complex, Brittney and Andre live in the back of the complex. They would have no reason to be in the front unless it was to go to the leasing office. They pulled up in front of me but didn’t bother to make eye contact and didn’t speak. I ignored them as well but I observed Brittney. She had lost a lot of weight and so much weight that she actually looked sickly. Her face and body were very small. They eventually pull off and I pull off after they leave. Fast forward, I’m a grocery store that also doubles as a soul food restaurant. I run into Brittney and Andre AGAIN! This time, Brittney looks much healthier as she’s gained some of her weight back. We all make eye contact but once again, don’t speak or acknowledge one another. I was on the phone with Te (which is a shock in itself because in real life, Te and I are no longer speaking and my phone number is blocked). Normally she is someone I would have been on the phone with so maybe my dreams created a familiar scenario. I was talking to Te about running into Brittney. As Brittney, Andre and I came down the same aisle, I found them looking at me from across the aisle. I looked at Britney and with a smirk on my face said, “Don’t stare at me if you won’t speak to me”. She stared at me for a second longer before breaking eye contact. I had a strange feeling that Brittney was being influenced by Andre. His energy was not pleasant at all! Hers wasn’t the best either but I had a feeling a part of her wanted to speak but couldn’t. I noticed she’d continue to shoot me nasty looks before she and Andre and then she and Andre sat down to eat. They ended up ordering food and I was left to grocery shop uncomfortably as they shot me nasty looks on and off watching me shop. We got to the self check out at the same time to pay for our foods but we were across the room and at different kiosks. They left first and I left after. Once I got home, I called my line sister to tell her about what happened. Like a true idiot, I ended up peeing on my bed because someone I mistook it for the toilet. I don’t know why my mind didn’t register till it was too late. I jumped out of my sleep to make sure I didn’t use the bathroom on myself in real life, I didn’t thank God. I’m not sure where that dream came from. I know Te and Brittney was mentioned yesterday during my first therapy session so maybe that triggered them to be in my dreams. I’m not talking to either of them at the moment. Brittney and I parted ways at the end of last year around October and haven’t spoken since except to wish one another a happy birthday on occasion. Allante and I had a huge argument before falling out this past August. She blocked me and we haven’t spoken since. Yesterday, I did make the decision to unfollow Brittney on Instagram. I felt like it was unnecessary to unfollow one another if we haven’t spoken in over a year and her profile has been muted for months so I won’t be triggered by it. If I mute you, what’s the point of following you? Especially when we don’t speak or haven’t seen one another.
This dream seems to reflect some unresolved feelings and conflicts in your relationships with Brittney, Andre, and Te. The setting of the dream, your apartment complex, symbolizes your personal space and the familiarity of your environment. The appearance of Brittney and Andre could represent unresolved issues or tensions in your relationships with them, especially since you mentioned recent conflicts or falling outs with them in real life.
Brittney's sudden weight loss in the dream may symbolize a sense of vulnerability, illness, or change that she may be experiencing, and your observation of her could reflect your concern or confusion about her well-being. The lack of communication and eye contact in the dream may indicate a lack of connection or understanding between you and these individuals in waking life.
The presence and behavior of Andre in the dream, with his negative energy and influence over Brittney, could represent a perceived external influence or the impact of others on your relationships. Your reactions and interactions with them in the dream, such as confronting Brittney and feeling uncomfortable in their presence, may signify your own internal struggles and feelings of powerlessness in these relationships.
The phone call to Te in the dream, despite being blocked in real life, may suggest a desire for communication or closure with these individuals, even if current circumstances prevent it. Your unconscious mind may be processing unresolved emotions and seeking resolution or understanding through this dream scenario.
The accidental peeing on the bed at the end of the dream could symbolize feelings of embarrassment, vulnerability, or a loss of control in a situation that may not be fully understood. This action could represent a desire to release emotional tensions or fears that are affecting you subconsciously.
Overall, this dream appears to reflect a mix of conflicted emotions, unresolved issues, and the need for closure or clarity in your relationships with these individuals. It may be helpful to reflect on these dynamics and consider addressing any lingering emotions or concerns in a healthy and constructive manner, whether through communication, self-reflection, or seeking support from therapy or other resources.